“Yes, but…”

There are countless quotes about women empowering other women, but if we’re being honest with ourselves, women often feel jealous of other women. Don’t you agree?

Do you really believe that in women’s friendships, support exists without any jealousy lingering quietly in the background? Again, I don’t think so. I’m not cynical about genuine friendship; I still have a few that I treasure, and I truly believe pure, sincere friendships exist. But no matter how genuine or caring those friendships are, jealousy is almost always there too.

So the next question is: How does a friendship survive even with hidden jealousy walking alongside it?
The answer is simple: because the jealousy never turns into action. It stays wrapped inside care and support, not twisted into gossip or harmful behavior that leads to hurt, disappointment, or anyone being put at a disadvantage.

And that’s why it matters to be wise about who you allow into your circle. Jealousy will always exist, but choose the people who can manage it, who can transform those feelings into genuine support instead of silent resentment. I value the women who give me honest advice, even the bold-uncomfortable kind, far more than those who hide everything behind sugarcoated words.

In the end, friendship isn’t about being perfect. It’s about choosing honesty, choosing growth, and choosing each other despite the quiet flaws we all carry. Jealousy may whisper in the background, but true friends speak louder. Choose sincerity. Choose honesty. Choose the women who choose you back.

As I am, until the next thought,

Im a mumbler